shame is not a bad thing at all. it is a good thing shame makes you want to apologize when you do something wrong. it makes yourself self-conscious to make your self represent your self better. it will motivate you to be a better person. it will make you cry, mad, upset, anything to make you a stronger person. how ever this could make you feel so worthless. it could also destroy you as a person. it could cause you to loose trust, and develop trust issues. it will make you feel powerless like nothing you say matters. but if you find your true meaning you will always mean something in your own head.